router - Cant acces MySQL server remotly -

I am encountering some problems that are trying to overcome my MySQL database far away. It works fine to reach local or more LANs, but when I have to try on the Internet, I get this error:

Host '1 9 02.1.1.1' is the MySQL server

I have done all this:

• Disable firewall
• Privilege grants with a local client : at all * *. * To Root

  Then when I try to connect:

    mysql -h190.XXX.XXX. XXX - Root - Pete   
   Note that I try to connect via public IP (190.XXX.XXX.XXX), but the error router shows local IPs ( Router is configured to forward  
   thanks in advance.   
   
   
   lot All possible reasons:  
   _my.cnf first:  
   should stop # skip-networking # -address = 0.0.0.0 # Make sure this local host to do Do not comply   
   _ Make sure there is no firewall and you do not need to open ports in /etc/hosts.allow (or whatever you want as Amazon Policy Editor  
   _ Your grant should also be a grant option (I will use any other than the root for remote access):  
    * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *   
   _ Make sure you flush the privileges (After grant):  
    Flush privileges;